Do not follow everyone, just be you own

Do you have idols? Of course, many young people may be fans and follow some super star. Most of people just think they are handsome and they are excellent. But there are also some people who love their idol even more than loving to their family. They may like a star and they never pay attention on other things. Having someone who you like or respect, it does not matter, but if you put your hole life on it, it may really serous.

We need more time to communicate to our friends or family. There is a little girl who is in middle school. She like a star who is handsome. She does not care anything anymore and even does not sleep to wait in airport for seeing her idol. This action is really crazy and it is bad for her health. It influence her life into a bad way. And some girls even spend a lot of money in order to see movie stars. In fact, the money that they spend is made by their parents and it is not for them to do some crazy things. We need to know how our life can be like this, by our parents. So we need to spend time on them instead of the people who even do not know who you are.

Except your family, we also need to be ourself and pay attention on your things first. When a movie star announce he has girlfriend, there are many girl will be surprise and even there is a girl killed herself. We can not just live for others, we are ourself. Everyone will marry and it is common. And sometimes, a goodies news of stars even can cover more meaningful news. There is a example. A star who will marry, but at same time there is also a really contributory scientist who dead. But the most saddest thing is on his memorial meeting, only scientist’s students presented and most of people were discussing the wedding of star. We need to pay more attention on the more important and meaningful things. We need to follow more grand people and study from them.

We can have our own idol, but we need to have a ruler in our mind. It means we need to do our own things first and plan our life. Then in the free time we can try to know about our idols. So do not follow others blindly, we are just ourselves and we can be our best.